Relationship Goals
Communication is the number one most important trait in a relationship,because it permeates every area and aspect of life or relationship. Conversing with or learning to be a good listener to your partner's loved ones, friends, neighbors, or acquaintances. All require certain social norms and boundaries to be observed—such as trust, mutual respect and give-and-take—whether it’s face to face, by email, social media, and telephone. The younger generation as well as some 30-40+ has been called the silent generation, due to communicating overwhelmingly via mediums that do not require actually speaking to anyone, such as texting, social media messages, email, and so on.
In so doing, their personal communication skills are being hindered. The broader outcome could be social isolation, arrested social development, and not learning from the common lot of other’s experiences and mistakes who are their age and older, which could stifle a person in various ways and potentially become a barrier to the full enjoyment of relationships. Knowing how to connect with others, being empathetic, when to speak and when to listen, is of great value in personal relationships. To learn the art of conversation is to actually do it, interacting with your partner's peers, other varied and diverse people.
The decisions we make have real-world consequences, some immediate, and some delayed, affecting ourselves and others choices. It could literally mean the difference between happiness, remorse, success and failure of an relationship. We need to be better equipped with the ability to think through scenarios and situations which inevitably arise in you and your partner's lives not only for the sake of a successful relationship, but also for the sake of being wise for its own sake and endeavors. Avoid self-reference in-coherency which leads to thinking consistent of one's self. Ignoring the possibility of defining truth in terms of coherence but to find a truth criterion, which he or she understands to be a procedure for selecting from a set of conflicting and even contradictory truth to rationalize accepting as truths.
If a thing is worth doing, it is worth learning to do right. With some things we will be awkward and fumble when we are learning about how to do them. Dating is one of those things. But it’s worth doing, so it’s okay if it’s done badly, and we can learn and grow from our experiences. Schooling doesn’t help our awkward dating life because it doesn’t teach in this domain of life whatsoever.
Nevertheless, we can all agree that this aspect of life is very valuable, for this is the first step in falling in love, getting married, and starting a family–and the family is the foundation of society. It is, therefore, important to choose the right mate, know what to look for and what to avoid in a partner, and how to be a good partner yourself. This takes practice and attention to yourself, date, or spouse. As with conversation, similar ideology, past experience comes by doing. However, some guidance from our peers, mentors, parents and grandparents, or other people we revere could help avoid common pitfalls and mistakes that are bound to occur in dating and relationships.
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